In the past, I’ve written about incorporating sex toys into your pleasure routine for Valentine’s Day, but why not make it a more regular experience? Whether on your own or with a partner, they can really ramp things up in the bedroom. Given the new wave of toys, no longer are large phallic symbols the object of desire. Instead, sleek clit-centric, partner-friendly products are making sex even more enjoyable–for both people involved.
Now that the temperature is beginning to cool down, we’re less inclined to spend our weekends out and about at day parties. Cozy nights in with that special someone, or that someone for right now, seem more appealing. To help spice things up, I’ve put together a list of the best sex toys out currently that both you, and your partner will enjoy.
Lelo Ora 2 ($141.75)
This award-winning, chic sculptural vibrator is meant to simulate the oral sex experience, for women! Though it seems a bit pricey, Lelo makes it affordable with an option to pay in installments, so that eliminates any excuse to get it! I know I will!
We-Vibe Touch ($99)
The brand We-Vibe makes a number of sex toys ideal for couples. The Touch is a super soft, yet powerful clitoral vibrator that can be used on your own or with someone else. It’s eco-friendly, water-proof, and has 8 different vibrating sensations so you’re bound to find one you like best.
Love Honey Silencer Whisper Quiet Classic Vibrator ($25.99)
This sex toy was made with silence in mind. It’s perfect for the discreet couple, and if you’re getting it on while your roommates home. But don’t let this quiet toy fool you, it still provides intense stimulations. And you can’t beat that price point!
We-Vibe Pivot ($103.55)
Okay fine, penises need love too, ha! If your partner has one, this cock-ring is ideal in making sure you both get the pleasure you deserve. It’ll help prolong his erection and send some deep stimulation to your clit.
The Satisfyer Pro Penguin ($32.95)
This clitoral stimulator uses non-contact pressure-wave technology to provide feelings of suction and pulsations, similar to that of oral sex. And it has 11 different intensities to cater to everyone’s needs.
Dame Products Pom ($95)
I rave about this sex toy because it’s my absolute favorite. As the name suggests, it fits into the palm of your hand and this super smooth and flexible clit stimulator is great for you and a partner. You can get the intensity just right by setting your own or using one of it’s five presets!
Lubes to Try
Sex toys aren’t the only way to spice things up in the bedroom. Lube is now becoming more mainstream. Whether it’s CBD infused, silicone, or water-based–lube helps take the pressure off of penetration and can help things go a bit more seamlessly. Here are three lubricants to try now:
Nécessaire The Sex Gel ($20)
Foria Awaken Natural Arousal Oil ($48)
Lola Personal Lubricant ($13)